THE OVERDUE BIRTHDAY POST

Since I was so busy with school I didn't really have time to blog about my early birthday celebration. If you scroll a few posts down... you'll see a post about me stressing over a birthday dress. Well, I didn't even end up wearing any of the dresses that I bought because I wore an old Bebe dress instead!! Funny how things end up!

I bought this dress a few years ago. You can't really tell from this picture but there are sequins all over it!

Funny story about this cake. My xboyfriend actually paid for it before we broke up. Haha sucker. My cake was custom made for me from Ganach Patisserie. The flavor that I chose was chocolate veloute = 70% dark chocolate mousse with dark chocolate creme brullee. YUM!

I had my early birthday dinner at CinCin. I was so scared that my exboyfriend would show up but luckily he didn't! I had such a great time on my birthday and it was fun celebrating being single again!

A few things that I got for my birthday:

These ear muffs are so warm! I wear them all the time.

Shirts from Aritzia. Perfect to wear to school when I want to be comfy!

presenting... the world's WORSE bf!!!!

I had my last two finals today!! So some of you are probably wondering what happened between me and my boyfriend (now EX-bf). Let's see.. the both of us usually fight a lot because he acts really immature. So one day he finally said "I'm not happy in this relationship I want a break." I said "Okay I agree with you let's go on a break". Since my xbf was the one who asked to go on a break first, you'd think that he would have been fine with my answer. Nope. Instead he starts RIPPING MY SCHOOL NOTES APART!! He took my textbooks and started throwing them everywhere (and at me) and then he took my binders (which I have kept VERY organized) and started ripping the pages out of them. I was sooooooooo fricken choked. You NEVER mess with my me and my school work!! So I'm trying to gather as many textbooks as I can to bring with me but the crazy psychopath says "NO GET OUT NOW". He grabs me and starts shoving me towards the door so I had to leave them behind. Luckily I pack my backpack every night so I grabbed it as I'm going. Before I can even put my shoes on or get a jacket the asshole threw me out the apartment door. So now I have NO CLOTHES and NONE of my belongings! I had to call my mom and get her to pay for my cab ride home. I have never been so disgusted and disappointed in my life.

My xbf is supposed to be a 32 year old grown man and this is how he handles rejection? I thought about it and he is the most pathetic individual I have ever met. I should have left him a long time ago because there were so many warning signs but I kept giving him the benefit of the doubt. I also thought that I could change him to become a better person but I've realized now that it's never your job to change people. My xbf has so many issues that he needs to deal with. He has anger issues, drinking issues, INSECURITY issues. I remember one time I was practicing my presentation out loud so I closed our computer room door. He got so mad at me because he told me I was being "shady". Can you believe that?

ANYWAYS... I'm in a much better and happier place in my life. I'm actually having a lot of fun now that I'm single! I'm probably not going to date for a long time because I'm a little traumatized and I'll be honest in a manhater mood right now. BUT I promised myself that the next guy I date has to be someone who is educated and mature. There's no point in going to nursing school and studying to get high marks when your boyfriend is as dumb as a rock. His stupidity will end up killing your own brain cells. True story!

hello blog, it's been a long time!

OH MY, I haven't blogged in over a week! So much has happened since my last post. Let's see... I am officially single and free again. I broke up with my boyfriend because he has so many issues that he is a pathetic excuse for a 32 year old grown man. Breaking up with him is probably one of the smartest choices I have made in a long time :)

So since we broke up I had to move back in with my family, which I actually don't mind at all! I get to have my own room again and I get to decorate it as girly as I want!! My family just bought a new house so it was perfect timing for me to move back home. The walls of my room are already painted the way that I wanted them. My walls are a light beige color while my ceiling is a dark purple. It is exactly the same color scheme as this room idea from Ikea (which I am now going to copy) so I think that it was meant to be!! My hardwood floor color is the same shade as well!

Both of my parents are really happy that I'm moving back home. My mom has offered to pay off my visa card for me (because I don't work while I'm in school and was depending on my x-bf for financial support) and my dad has even helped me harass my x-bf to get the rest of my stuff back LOL. My parents said that they would go to Ikea with me to buy new stuff for my room so I've already made a list of things that I want to get. When my new room is finished I'll post a picture on my blog. I need to focus on studying for my finals because I really really want to get high 80-90 %.